Conflicts

just back from wedding dinner..

my uncle's wedding..

urm..

he looks fat compare to last time..

maybe the wife always can't finish her food and give to the husband..

then..

the bride make up not nice..

i'm so sorry to say that..

but it's true..

i'm not mean..

just that i can't accept it..

i saw my cousin..

quite long didn't see her already..

grown up so much..

urm..

my family have conflict with them..

which is something very sad about..

so the story begins like that:

before my grandma passed away..

grandma and her sister..

having conflict which i just mentioned..

when my grandma in the hospital..

her sister family didn't come and visit her..

until she passed away..

then never come and pay a visit..

so my grandpa said don't talked to them anymore..

her own sister also don't care when she's sick..

bla bla bla..

back to the wedding:

her daughter (means my grandma's sis) came and talked to my grandpa..

but my grandpa don't want to talked to her..

because of what happened that makes us feel disappointed..

her reason is we didn't give them a call that grandma was sick in the hospital..

stuff like this is NO NEED to be CALLED..

you got the info from your own brother what..

and you blame us not calling you..

still you can pay a visit right?

don't you think is a lil too over?

sigh..

you guys is too over realistic..

u only have one sister which is my grandma..

why you counting so much??

we treat you good but what we get in return??

piece of shit..

we're in the same family..

but turns out to be splitting here and there..

you didn't even attend the wedding dinner..

and giving a cold answer to the person who invited you?

what's your problem?

i really don't understand..

anyway,

that's about it..

you see,

big family doesn't mean is a good thing..

many conflict will appear which the relationship just end like that..

just like a computer..

no more family loving..

i really appreciate people who have big family but their relationship is just so closed!

which is where you got your love from..

appreciate PEOPLE.