Monday, October 13, 2008

The Friend

who is your very first friend?
so everyone start thinking now..everyone will thinks that it is someone that you know in kindergarten or primary school..try to think back and are you sure they are or he/she is your best friend?actually,your very first friend is Your Mother..she's the one who know you from the very first start..before you know how to crawl,walk,talk and stuff like this..she's the person who bring you this complicated world..and experience everything she did experience before but of course in a positive side..she's the one who protects you from harm,sick..now when we getting bigger..we got new friends which is from different place..primary friends,secondary friends,colleague,and more..now in primary..normally the friendship is just a normal one..where we will not have so much conflict and stuff..primary is more to enjoy and fun all around you..come to secondary..things start to change from physically to mentally..or another way round..it depends..more conflict will develop and this is how we start to think wisely..we got to know more different people in secondary..it just so much different from primary..compare primary and secondary what we think in primary is so much easier than secondary..what we think is fun and fun..in secondary school,we get to know different friends..some people with an unfortunate luck..they will get to know bad friends in the sense that he/she treat the friends nicely but in return they backstab he/she or treat he/she like a dog..good friends..good friends can be someone you can study together with or joke around just for a minute and ended up silents for in another minute..good friends is not someone that you can talk your secret with..comes to best friends..this is the person who you can talk every single thing of yourself to him/her..you can hang for a long time with him/her on the phone and talking like the telephone bill will not increase..all this type of friend is depends on how you know them..and how you put them in..if you know what they do is right,then follow their step..if you know is bad just stand still and be apart from them but not stop being their friend..they do have their own good..good in the sense,maybe they are brave to stood up and point on their view about something which will causes a big issue in school or stuff like that..so,it all depends on you to analyze things that happen infront of you..time is still here for you to change..it always never too late..time is valuable..appreciate what you have now and go on with your life!!
p/s:give some comment..hope for more comment on this one.thanks.

1 comment:

Karena said...

hey there! u blog quite often, eh? keep it up aite? enjoy reading your posts.. (: